How to Become a More Positive Person in 24 Hours

By September 19, 2018Self-Improvement
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It’s pretty easy to imagine that positive thinking has a direct impact on your mental and emotional health, but the full truth is that positive thinking impacts every aspect of your life. Your physical health and well-being, your relationships, your career success, your home, your wealth, your self-image — the list goes on and on.

Your thoughts run your life.

People who choose positive thoughts have good lives despite the circumstances that impact them. Likewise, people who choose negative thoughts are often plagued by the physical, social, mental, and emotional consequences of those negative thoughts.

So, let’s examine the different ways we can see the world, and then how we can shift ourselves from focusing on the negative to becoming a positive person.

Seeing the Negative vs. Seeing the Positive (in Real Life)

Think about the last time you sent a heartfelt text and didn’t receive a prompt response. Does any of this sounds like the reaction you had?

  • She must be mad at me.
  • I must have said something I shouldn’t have.
  • Maybe she found out about one time I [fill in the blank].
  • I should have known we weren’t really 
  • Maybe she took it the wrong way. How can I delete this?
  • I’m so embarrassed. Why did I even send her that?

In reality, she’s probably in the shower, at work, or taking a nap.

But by the time the negative dialogue has been allowed to run for even five minutes, you’re filled with shame, worry, anxiety, and pain. Your friendship is suddenly at risk. Maybe you have an upset stomach, or your breath feels caught in your throat. You feel unwell, although you probably haven’t realized that this physical unrest is the outcome of the negative internal dialogue fueled by no real information at all.

Now consider a time you chose positive thoughts. Maybe you greeted a coworker in the hallway and he didn’t respond. Perhaps you quickly decided that he didn’t hear you, he was distracted by his work, or he replied but you didn’t hear him. The small exchange (or lack of exchange) is quickly over and you move on with your day. You feel good. Your confidence isn’t shaken. Your professional relationship isn’t impacted.

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The 3 Steps to Becoming a More Positive Person in 24 Hours

So how do you make the shift from being controlled by the dialogue (think about that racing heart, pit in your stomach) to controlling the dialogue yourself? How do you choose your own day and your own destiny?

It’s surprisingly simple and perhaps even more surprising that literally anyone and everyone can do it with purpose and intention.

There are three steps to taking this control and they can be done in any order:

  1. Choose gratitude
  2. Redirect negativity
  3. Use your senses

Let’s explore each of these one at a time.

1. Choose Gratitude

What you think is what you become. By taking time every morning and every night to recognize your blessings and bask in your gratitude, you’ll naturally shift your mental framework to the positive.

Challenge yourself to journal your gratitude and to be very specific when you do:

  • “I’m grateful for that special moment I shared with my daughter today.”
  • “I’m grateful I had the opportunity to feel the hot sand beneath my feet this morning.
  • “I’m grateful for the kind text my husband sent this afternoon.”
  • “I’m grateful that my superior trusted me with such a monumental project.”

When you take time out of your day — every single day, morning and night — to count your blessings, you begin living a life of gratitude. Your dialogue begins changing without any further focused effort.

How to Become a More Positive Person in 24 Hours

2. Redirect Negativity

Let’s talk about that power you have over the internal dialogue — the voice in your head that seems to know everything about everything and can read other people’s minds (with an especially negative twist).

The first step in redirecting those thoughts is simply hearing them. Listen to them. When you can separate enough to hear the words and identify those words as coming from “the voice” (as opposed to the real you) they begin to lose power. And when they lose their power, you begin to realize you can change your internal dialogue if you choose.

Next time you hear negative assumptions pop up in your mind — like, “My husband must not respect me at all because he keeps throwing his clothes on the floor!” — immediately replace them with positive assumptions — “My husband trusts and relies on me to care for him in ways that make him feel valued and special.”

Here’s a challenge: next time you don’t feel well, whether it’s an ache, pain, nausea, or something else (as long as it’s not something critical), choose not to think about what ails you. Instead, focus on the positive:

  • I am breathing in and out.
  • I can feel the ground beneath my feet.
  • I am well.
  • I am healthy.
  • I have goals to achieve.
  • I am loved by those around me.
  • I feel good.
  • My body is strong.

Every time the dialogue shifts to a negative thought, redirect it. Take note of the way this strategy and way of thinking truly changes how you feel both physically and mentally.

How to Become a More Positive Person in 24 Hours

3. Use Your Senses

We live in such a fast-paced, technology-ridden, distracting time that many people aren’t sure what it means to use their senses. It’s okay, nobody is expected to be an expert. But using your senses to fully experience your physical surroundings helps you live in the present and quiets the internal dialogue.

Try this exercise:

  1. Look around you. What do you see? Identify something vibrant, beautiful, surprising, or peaceful.
  2. What do you hear? Is it the rise and fall of your own breath? Leaves rustling on the trees? The lip-lap of tires against cement? The gentle hum of an air conditioner?
  3. What do you feel? Can you feel your feet against the floor, grounding you and giving you a foundation? The fabric of your clothes against your skin? Your hair on the back of your neck?
  4. What do you taste? The sweet remnants of your breakfast?
  5. And what do you smell? The comfortable smell of home? Fabric softener? Rain? Falling leaves?

Using your senses helps you experience the things that make up life — the memories associated with certain smells and sounds, the pleasure associated with touch and sights. They bring you back to gratitude and positivity.

You Can Become the Most Positive Person You Know

All these steps work best when you journal to establish your intentions, focus on gratitude, and measure the results of your efforts. You can journal anywhere, but our Happier Mind Journal can help you stay organized and focused, minimizing your efforts and maximizing your return.

For more about positivity and journaling, either download our free eBook or purchase a hardcover Happier Mind Journal with a 20% WLC discount. Use promotional code WLC20 at checkout.

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Matt Mignona
Matt Mignona has always been the type of person to see each day as a blank page, ready for writing the grandest adventures and keeping a record of the human journey.

After spending many years training as a world-class athlete, Matt shifted his focus to accommodate changing life goals. He started a family and began to take glimpses of the world from a different perspective.

His biggest commitment outside of his family has been personal growth and development. Matt spent years developing various tools and methods that he could apply not only to himself but suggest to others as paving stones on the pathway to self-development. That is how Matt came to develop one of his greatest ideas yet, the Happier Mind Journal.

He is the founder and author of this ninety-day journal that has helped thousands of people to become the best version of themselves. It uses inspirational prompts to promote happiness through the powers of gratitude, mindfulness, and positivity.

However, as someone who wakes at 3:00am each morning to devote to his own personal development, it’s safe to say there’s more to come yet from this high energy, optimistic go-getter.

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